speak truthfully and respond with care and compassion
respond thoughtfully, seeking first to understand, then to be understood speak directly to any person with whom I have a concern, rather than complain to others
understand that there will be differences among us & accept and care for others despite these differences
refrain from judging other people's motives
test my assumptions and examine my motives
honor my responsibility for upholding the spiritual principles and traditions of our community
cherish the health of the congregation above individual agendas