Welcoming Congregation means gays, lesbians, transgender folks are welcome at UUCE

WELCOMING CONGREGATION

In 1987 the Unitarian Universalist Association established the Common Vision Planning Committee. This committee found many negative attitudes, deep prejudices, and profound ignorance about bisexual, gay, lesbian and transgender* people, which resulted in the exclusion of bisexual, gay, lesbian and transgender people from their churches. As a result of these findings, the delegates of the 1989 UUA General Assembly voted overwhelmingly to initiate the Welcoming Congregation program to educate its members. Each congregation adapts the program to best meet its goals and each unique situation can bring positive changes to individuals and congregations.

WHAT IS THE WELCOMING CONGREGATION PROGRAM?

The UUA's Welcoming Congregation Program is a volunteer program for congregations that see a need to become more inclusive towards bisexual, gay, lesbian, and/or transgender* people. It consists of a series of workshops developed by the UUA. The goal of the workshops is to reduce prejudice by increasing understanding and acceptance among people of different sexual orientations. Some of the workshop session titles include: How Homophobia Hurts Heterosexuals; Connections to Other Forms of Oppression; Gender Socialization and Homophobia; and Biblical Perspectives on Homosexuality.

WHAT DOES IT MEAN TO BE A WELCOMING CONGREGATION?

UUCE openly welcomes bisexual, gay, lesbian and/or transgender* people in many ways. Specifically, we aim to:

1. Include and address the needs of BGLT persons at every level of congregational life—in worship, in programs, in social occasions, and in rites of passage—welcoming not only their presence, but the gifts and particularities of their lives as well.

2. Assume the presence of b/g/l/t people and celebrate this diversity by having inclusive language and content in our worship.

3. Fully incorporate the experiences of b/g/l/t persons throughout all programs, including religious education.

4. Include an affirmation and nondiscrimination clause in our by-laws and other official documents affecting all dimensions of congregational life, including membership, hiring practices, and the calling of religious professionals

5. Engage in outreach into the b/g/l/t community in our advertising and by actively supporting b/g/l/t affirmative groups

6. Offer congregational and ministerial support for union and memorial services for b/g/l/t persons, and for celebrations of differing family definitions.

7. Celebrate the lives of all people and welcome same-sex couples, recognizing their committed relationships, and equally affirm displays of caring and affection without regard to sexual orientation.

8. Seek to nurture ongoing dialogue between bisexual, gay, lesbian, transgender, and heterosexual persons and to create deeper trust and sharing.

9. Encourage the presence of a local chapter of Interweave.

10. Affirm and celebrate b/g/l/t issues and history during the church year.

11. Attend to legislative developments and work to promote justice, freedom, and equality in the larger society.

12. Speak out when the rights of bisexual, gay, lesbian, and transgender people are at stake.

13. Celebrate the lives of all people and their ways of expressing their love for each other.

* The definition of Transgender used in Welcoming Congregation (copyright 1999) is: "Transgender (adj.)An umbrella term used to describe anyone who does not conform to dominant understandings of gender. It may describe a person who is transsexual, intersexual, or a crossdresser/transvestite."

More information about the Welcoming Congregation curriculum is available through the UUA's website: http://www.uua.org/leaders/leaderslibrary/welcomingcongregation/index.shtml

Between and Beyond, our resource that answers common questions about transgender identity (last updated August of 2007), begins:
"Gender: Our culture tends to limit its understanding of gender to man and woman. OBGLTC believes there are more than two genders. OBGLTC uses the word 'transgender' in its title as an umbrella term to describe the following people: crossdressers/transvestites, genderqueer, intersexuals, third gender, transsexuals, and any self-identified trans people. But even this is not necessarily completely accurate. Read on!

Sex and Gender: People are assigned a biological sex (Male, Female, Intersex). People define their own gender (Man, Woman, Transgender)." This resource can be found at:
http://www.uua.org/members/justicediversity/bisexualgay/identity101/25348.shtml

We also encourage folks to visit the numerous resources in the "Related Content" box on the same page.

For more information, visit the UUA's Office of Bisexual, Gay, Lesbian and Transgender Concerns. Their Vision Statement reads "The Office is guided by the vision that someday we will be able to put ourselves out of business and that oppression against bisexual, gay, lesbian, and/or transgender people, whether it be overt or subtle, will be a thing of the past."

UUA Resources include BGILT-News (announcements list), Interweave-D discussion list, Lambda (GLBT ministers and ministry students) discussion list. To participate on these lists, click here and then click on the list(s) you wish to join.

Other Resources include
An essay on what the Bible says about homosexuality
Same Sex Marriages and Unitarian Universalist Churches
Sex and Gender Minorities
What is Marriage For?
For Better or Worse
The only measure of your words and your deeds will be the love you leave behind
I am my beloved's and my beloved is mine

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Unitarian Universalist Church in Eugene, Oregon A Welcoming Congregation A Green Certified Congregation

Unitarian Universalist Church
in Eugene, Oregon
A Welcoming Congregation
A Green Certified Congregation